So I have been looking to have my cake and eat it too! However, you typically you only get one or the other. But not with the Real Men's Strapless! I LOVE the way it lifts and separates! The only problem is that when I ordered it, I got the "average" size pouch. When I got it, I tried it on immediately and fell in love with it, but thought it was a little tight. But never fear, RMAC's customer service agent Anne, took care of the exchange, now I can play pickleball with the best of them! ...